Many time in life we are trying to figure out our past .Did I take right decision ? Was my life better in past than now ? Did I make mistake? Many more questions related to your work , education etc will come ahead as yo go deeper to dig out the past.

To retrospect the past is good thing but to regret the past decisions will not help any time.We always tend to think  ‘Can I get a chance to re correct my decisions about education/work etc which have taken in past?’ Answer is simply NO , the also we are wasting lots of time and not dong justice with our present.

Some of the common reasons behind digging out past are :
-Not happy with present
-Worried about future
-Daily same routine
-Not Finding current work challenging
-Want to rely on past for present
-Comparison with other individuals
-Underestimating yourself
-Regretting about past decisions, considering they could have been avoided

Things might have went wrong in past which we can not change now.We need to overcome them and to make sure that in present (which will turn past) will not repeat them .We should have another view at the past like
-Enjoyed past with that decision
-No other alternative available at that time
-Found good things in it and that’s why chosen

We can overcome this state of life by few of the things listed below :
-Accept the past and the fact that you can not change it
-Try to figure out good things in present
-Prepare for future
-Take present decisions carefully
-Keep nerves cool before going for major decision
-Stop comparing yourself with others
-Belief  yourself
-Be happy and Satisfied
-Change the Daily Routine
-Take Day off

 

 

Never regret your past, as decisions taken in past were right at that point of time !!

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